Powerful Tips For A Soulful Love Life.
Embracing Your Sexuality Is Embracing Your True Self.
Jane Mahalini Soul Embodiment
For more understanding and compassion
Dear Soul,
Before getting to the tips, I would love to give you some background information. To help you get a better understanding and compassion in your love life and relationship.
In my practice, I often see individuals who struggle to find joy in lovemaking. Sometimes, it’s due to past trauma, but more frequently, it’s because they view lovemaking as routine. It has become a compulsory act, especially in long-term relationships. Complaints often revolve around a lack of variety and creativity.
Partners often fail to fully enjoy each other. Busy lives and time constraints often lead to inadequate attention to foreplay. One partner may climax too quickly, while the other may not at all. It’s well-known that women often require more time to reach climax. When men fail to understand or recognize this, it can lead to frustration in a loving relationship. In practice, partners frequently don’t know each other’s desires and preferences.
Research indicates that at least 20% of women never experience an orgasm.
An orgasm should not be the sole focus. Don’t kill the passion!
For some, the experience of love can be more profound when there is no pressure to achieve orgasm. Engaging in intimacy, exploring each other’s energies, and being open to new experiences can be fulfilling in itself.
I hear from clients who have lost interest in lovemaking and are uncertain about how to change this.
The “inability” to enjoy lovemaking knows no age limit. I even know of young couples who have stopped being intimate because they’ve developed a sibling-like relationship over time. Often, the relationship is the primary source of issues with intimacy.
Physical issues
Physical problems, such as those following childbirth, vaginal dryness, or vaginismus, can also play a role. Other factors, such as societal beauty standards, lack of self-confidence, and negative beliefs influenced by religion and culture, can contribute to the issue.
But don’t dispair! There are solutions. Enjoying Love is your Birth Right.
I am here to help you. Plan your private call with me
Use these tips & enjoy Love to the fullest.
Tip 1: Create your sacred space
1. Create a Relaxing Atmosphere. Allow yourselves the luxury of time and a comfortable setting to be together. This is crucial
Tip 2: Awaken your senses
2. Awaken Your Senses and set the mood with captivating, sensual music, delightful fragrances, soothing incense, and the soft glow of candles to ignite the spark.
Tip 3: Connecting and building up
Tip 4: Consciously touching
4. Touch each other gently starting with the arms for example and take it very slowly to continue to other parts of the body. Don’t go too fast to the genitals. Build up the intimacy and tension slowly. Intimacy is not the same as sex. It is connecting from the heart and soul. Being vulnerable, opening up to receive and give freely. This is the most forgotten part of lovemaking.
Tip 5: Take time, be gentle
Bonus tip: Your date night
Just remember: you can never be too busy for LOVE! NEVER. Plan a DATE NIGHT! Monthly to start with. And make this your both BIG DEAL! Surprise each other with something funny. Celebrate Love CONSCIOUSLY! Treat it like your Private Intimate Event. Make fun, be silly, be stupid, be PLAYFUL. Playfulness keeps every relationship going and sparking again and again. This is my last tip for now. Let this be your first step in getting prepared for your Love Sparks!
Schedule your private call with me if you want more support & advice.
In this free 30-minute online call I will listen to your questions and offer where ever I can. Feeling comfortable in your sensual flow is part of your Soul Embodiment.
